Love AAJ KAL !!

I love the song “yeh durian” from love AAJ KAL

The song is a usual musical treat lamenting the distance and love.

I have known the lyrics more or less by heart for the past 5 years. However, driving playing the song on full blast, singing along, I had an eureka! moment regarding the depths that the song touches.

Kabhi hua yeh bhi

Khali Rahon pe bhi

Tu tha mere saath

Kabhi tujhe milke lauta

mera dil yeh khali khali haath

Yeh bhi hua kabhi

Jaise hua Aabhi

Tujhko sabhi mein paa lia

The above set a para in a short sweet summary of relationships.

There were times when you were the only one with me, while I walked alone.

There were time, when I needed you and you gave me nothing.

There were times, just like now when i seen your face in everyone around……….

Beautiful!

Why I love being, not in love.

Being single is not as bad as I thought it would be when I ended relationship with my girlfriend of 2 years. Its actually quite awesome. Reasons

You don’t need to be by the phone 24x7.

You don’t feel ashamed when you swear.

You can be as perverted and cheap as you want to be.

You are free to ogle at hot chics.

You can have friends.

Your telephone bills shrink to near zilch

You miraculously seem to have more money in your pockets these days.

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love,hate

Here is an excerpt from Nita Chandrashkhars blogs (http://sosaysfol.wordpress.com) there was a great deal it which I could relate with, so I just thought I should share it with you.

"Why why o why? Why is it so difficult to let go sometimes? Why is it so difficult to forget a person who after the initial happiness has always given u more pain? Why doesnt my mind think more about the agony he has given and not the fun we had ? Why cant I forget him? Why cant I kick him out of my life as simply as he removed me from his ?

I have no answers. But I want to find some. Some balm to soothe my heart. Something to convince me that this is not the end. Why do I get so attached to people? Why is it that I care so much…most of the time not very evidently, but feel so much for that person? Why do I care? heck, why ?

I know I am not important to him. Probably wont be also. But my heart refuses to let go. Its not something that cropped up all of a sudden. It was coming. Now that it has, its killing me from inside.

Time is the best healer they say. Ive waited for so long thinking someday I will forget. Someday I will remember it as something that made me so happy and made my college life worth living. But not now. Is it a crime to like people? Why then does it hurt so much ? Why is loving/liking such a dangerous thing ? Is it wrong ? Do people exist just to hurt you ?

I might act tough most of the times, but my heart is very mellow. I am not a person who shows my true emotions very openly, but sometimes the cut is so deep that one cant help it. I know despite my best efforts, he is one person I can never forget. But should I wait till eternity ? Should I wait for an apology? I know my answer is firm now, but heart of hearts I am waiting. How I wish I was still a kid. All this would have never happened!"

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where is the love?

There are people who you don’t care about, there are those you like, there are those who you think you cannot live without and then there are people who you know nothing about.

In life as one goes about his day to day life, you tend to get used to people cheating you, trying to use you, people trying to mess up your head. But somehow you manage to keep faith keep marching ahead because you know there are those who care about you, love you.

What does one do, when one of those who you so dearly loved, lies to you, try to cheat you try and take advantage of the fact that you trust them?

LOVE%^&%@y^#%

Wow this Is going to be my first real attempt to start blogging. Its amazing how much free time u have when you are not seeing someone. The no of hours spent talking on the phone, the money spent paying for the phone bills can be put to so much good. Well u somehow don’t don’t notice this when you are in “love”, if there is any such thing in the first place. From whatever I have experienced from my past relationships is that, being in love is like being drunk( I mean reaaaaaaaly drunk!!), you enjoy it when you are in it, but when it ends it leaves a nasty hangover.